Monday, October 1, 2007

BULLIES are still in...

Throughout life one may experience the uneasy scared feeling of being bullied. For some it may just be a one time thing where it was only in elementary, high school, university or at a certain work place. However, the ones who experience the worse type of bulling would have to be from home. Home is suppose to be a sanctuary or a place where someone goes to to be safe when the world is spiraling downwards. Just like on television, whenever a child or teen who is facing a problem has their parents to go to for comfort. Thats home in my perspective and some are very lucky to have a supportive family that are seen on sitcoms. I'm pretty sure no family is perfect though and every life is different, but for those who face a very hot tempered father and a mother who can care less at times could probably relate to the lost feeling that may be expressed. Being put down and told that whatever one is doin is always wrong, constant yelling and ordered around. Where does one go to console themselves? How can one stay strong enough without showing a hint of fear? Most of all how can one ignore a life so disfuntional that something right is wrong unless its done by the person who supposively knows everything. Having a parent that acts like a bully is extrememly hard to cope with and seeing no change growing up its impossible to find respect in them. All together its hard to decide where to begin with due to frustration and knowing that opinions just get one in more trouble. From being sheltered all the time as a child and not experience the joys of a kid to more limits as one goes from elementary to highschool. Now its onto university college and the transition hasn't been so bad but the thought of being trapped is still in mind. Though the hardest part to see and hear is one's siblings being put down. There really is no way out if this continues and hope is just too far away. Friends and other family are a great help, but that's only temporary. Where does one go? There really has to be more to life.

2 comments:

Sisyphus said...

Hey, I like the ideas that you are writing about. It's an interesting perspective.

You might want to consider writing your blog first in word for spell checking. In the last entry you missed a few things: "Through out" (one word), "highschool" (two words), and "achild" (two words). Just trying to help since Gray said he would deduct marks for spelling errors.

Keep up the good work!

bananna tree said...

Wow, this one really gets to me. It's almost like reading about myself in a way. It's really weird actually. But in a sense of perhaps sharing a similar experience: look forward to the future because freedom is just around the corner and it's only a matter of time.

I can't wait until next weeks blog.